Friday, February 27, 2009

February is a month dedicated to lovers since the valentines day is celebrated evry 14th day of this month. So before this love month end, I thought of somthing to share...this poem that you are about to read will make you realize about the real essence of letting go...

To let go does not mean to stop caring,
it means I can't do it for someone else
To let go is not to cut myself off,

it's the realization I can't control another.
To let go is not to enable,
but allow learning from natural consequences.
To let go is to admit powerlessness, which means
the outcome is not in my hands.
To let go is not to try to change or blame another,
it's to make the most of myself.
To let go is not to care for,
but to care about.
To let go is not to fix,
but to be supportive.
To let go is not to judge,
but to allow another to be a human being.
To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes,
but to allow others to affect their destinies.
To let go is not to be protective,
it's to permit another to face reality.
To let go is not to deny,
but to accept.
To let go is not to nag, scold or argue,
but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.
To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires,
but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it.
To let go is not to criticize or regulate anybody,
but to try to become what I dream I can be.
To let go is not to regret the past,
but to grow and live for the future.

--author unknown

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

scary foot steps


i was horrified last night when a friend told me waht happened last sunday night in the boarding house..those shoes that you see were not arranged by anyone...
one of the girl who occupied the room was cleaning the place when she felt like something behind
her back is moving, but she didn't pay attention and continue with what she's doing...then when she turn around she just saw those shoes arranged and seems tobe heading to the room bed # 6...

prayer for a boyfriend

it is one summer vacation when me and my cousin accidentally saw our aunt's diary (it's her journal during her highschool days)...out of curiosity, we opened and read it...but what caught my attention is the page where I saw the prayer for a boyfriend...the prayer goes like this:

Heavenly father full of grace
bless my boyfriend's handsome face,
bless his hair that kinda curl,
keep him away from other girls.

Bless his hands which are strong
may they stay where they belong
bless his eyes which tend to roam
keep them from seeing what is not shown.

Bless his lips I love to kiss
bless his arms that hold me tight
bless his body that feels so right
If ever he'd read this prayer of mine
bless that thought that would enter his mind.


And now, I'm asking an apology to my dear aunt for posting it here...until now she have no idea that we've read her precious old diary...hope she won't be able to read this..

Monday, February 23, 2009

what if he's just not in to you?

Girls are taught a lot of stuff growing up. If a guy punches you he likes you.never try to trim your own bangs and someday you will meet a wonderful guy and get your very own happy ending.(a crazy idea but it's true, right?) Every movie we see, Every story we're told implores us to wait for it, the third act twist, the unexpected declaration of love, the exception to the rule. But sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending we don't learn how to read the signs. How to tell from the ones who want us and the ones who don't, the ones who will stay and the ones who will leave. And maybe a happy ending doesn't include a guy, maybe... it's you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is... just... moving on. Or maybe the happy ending is this, knowing after all the unreturned phone calls, broken-hearts, through the blunders and misread signals, through all the pain and embarrassment you never gave up hope. ---gigi (he's just not that into you)
in every heartbreak the next thing to do is moving on...but i think it should be moving forward...coz it predicts a brighter tomorrow